Dibakar, a 19-year-old from a slum near Kolkata’s dumping ground, has faced rejection, discrimination, and violence for his gender expression since childhood. Growing up, he was more comfortable with girls, loved makeup, and longed to wear women’s clothing. However, his father physically abused him, and his family restricted his freedom to maintain their social reputation. During COVID-19, he had to beg at traffic signals, dressing as a woman to support his struggling family. His younger brother refused to accept him, and his neighborhood constantly mocked him with slurs.
The project team identified Dibakar and started working with him and his family. His mother was sensitized to gender neutrality, and she eventually supported his dream of becoming a makeup artist. With the project team’s support, he completed professional training and now hopes to open his own beauty parlor. Although his father abandoned the family, Dibakar and his mother continue to work towards a better future. His social acceptance has improved as women in his locality seek him out for beauty services.
Dibakar actively participates in feminist movements, advocating for LGBTQIA+ rights and inclusion. He has attended life-skills training and regularly engages with his peers to educate them on self-empowerment. He also took part in the Kolkata Pride Walk, embracing his identity with confidence and encouraging others to do the same. Through the project’s safe space, Dibakar is helping his LGBTQ+ friends connect with support systems, ensuring they too can lead lives with dignity. With continued support, he aspires to achieve his dreams and create a more inclusive society.